10 Reasons Halle Barry Should Keep Personal Relationships Away From Her Daughter
After the irresponsible incident at Halle Berry’s home on Thanksgiving morning, we thought we’d identify 10 reasons why she has to keep her personal relationships away from her home, where her 4-year-old daughter resides, until the actress is able to guarantee to herself that violence is unacceptable at her place of residence.
Reason 1: If Halle Berry’s ex-boyfriend is so unstable that he is susceptible to getting into fights, the actress she have him around her daughter anymore, or anyone else for that matter.
Reason 2: Gabriel Aubry ruined the family’s Thanksgiving celebration by starting the skirmish, and he also ruined Nahla’s. Moreover, the memories of such a traumatic event, on a Holiday of all days, will leave an indelible mark in the 4 1/2 years Old’s head.
Reason 3: Both Aubry and Martinez present a problem. Martinez because he instigated the fight and Aubry because he decided it was OK to fight around his daughter. Halle needs a man in her life that has enough wisdom to know how not to trigger anger in another person especially where his future step child might be involved.
Reason 4: She says she wants to keep the paparazzi away from her daughter, yet in still, Berry has to take some of the blame since the fight broke out at her residence. She has to know that the paparazzi would get wind of it sooner or later and circle the wagons around her house.
Reason 5: Berry can’t afford to have her home turned into a bar-room atmosphere. Just think about it. On Thanksgiving morning at approximately 10 a.m. two very irresponsible lover and former lover force the actress to have to find a safe place of shelter for Berry’s daughter.
Reason 6: Since it appears that neither Aubry nor Martinez cared about bringing the attention of law enforcement into Berry’s home, Halle is therefore, going to have to be the adult in her relationship and refuse to socialize with them at her home. It is certainly is not good for a young child to grow up exposed to the constant presence of police officers at her home.
Reason 7: Halle must not allow her daughter to be subjected the embarrassing remarks, which children will certainly make on subjects as widely publicized as this one is. Children will not only tease her at school, but they’ll put the play by play, blow by blow information in her face.
TMZ gave a blow by blow account of the incident on their website. There is no way a child can attend school and not learn of such violent adult behavior from one of their classmates.
She would perhaps be subject to the following account: Martinez blocked [Aubry's punch] and the punch struck him in the shoulder instead… Aubry then pushed Martinez to the ground, a struggle ensued, ending when Olivier courageously ended up pinning Aubry to the ground, an unidentified source told TMZ.
Reason 8: Having an ambulance taking the wounded adults to the hospital on a regular basis is also not a good influence or experience for a young child to have.
Reason 9: An incident such as the brawl that took place at Berry’s home is the kind of event that has a way of leaking out into the playground; if that were to happen Halle would be exposing other children to her personal affairs.
One example is that Martinez, who has apparently become increasingly bitter during the custody battle, is said to be interested in pressing charges, TMZ reports. I don’t think Halle wants that sort of business discussed amongst small children, but she leases herself venerable to such a discussion.
The fact that Martinez, had a possible broken hand and suffered a neck injury should be a private affair.
All of the following information is definitely information that should be between adults, however, again because a brawl is so widely reported; this information is bound to leak.
There the fact that Aubry, a French-Canadian model who lives and works in Los Angeles, California had petitioned the court, asking it to prevent Halle’s from going forward with her plans to move their daughter to France.
Aubry argued it would give him limited access to his daughter, while Berry countered that the privacy laws are stronger in France, which would keep her daughter safe from the paparazzi so she could live a normal life. And, Berry, who split from Aubry in 2010 – had put her wedding plans on hold while she focused on her custody battle. All of this information should not be accessible to anyone outside of the private parties involved.
Last but not least are the details that have come out about Halle, Gabriel, and Oliver. That they called it quits in April 2010 after more than four years of dating, and she soon began a relationship with actor Martinez. They confirmed their engagement to media outlets in March of 2012.
And of course, the newest legal issue which now appears to prevent the father from seeing his daughter.
It’s a mess. Yesterday a judge issued an emergency protective order – meaning Gabriel has to stay 100 yards away from Halle, Olivier and Nahla. This sort of action could backfire and trigger Child Protective Services to take a look at the mother’s behavior. I’m sure Halle doesn’t want that kind of intrusion on her privacy.