Behavior Problems? A Simple Fix That Gives Immediate Results

Behavior Problems

Does your child have behavior problems?   According to researchers at the University of London, all you may have to do is apply one simple fix to your child’s routine in order to see immediate results.

What these researchers found is that having a regular bedtime is very important in how your child behaves.  When children do not have a regular bedtime, it causes them to go into a state similar to jet lag.  And, tired, sleepy children are children who are prone to misbehaving.

The research team came to this conclusion after studying more than 10,000 children who participated in the UK Millennium Cohort Study.   During the study, they collected data on bedtimes when they children were three, five and seven years old, as well as reports from their mothers and teachers about any behavior problems that the kids experienced during that time.

What they found when they analyzed the data was that there was a very clear link between the regularity of when children went to bed and how well they behaved during the day.

They also found that the longer that the kids were exposed to poor sleep schedules, the worse their behavior problems – such as hyperactivity, poor conduct, problems relating to other kids and emotional problems – became.

The researchers theorize that difficulties in behavior probably arise because the children’s circadian rhythms are upset by the disruption in their sleeping patterns.

They said that not having regular bedtimes were most common in three-year-olds, with only about 20 percent of kids having a set bedtime.  By the time children turned seven, however, about half of them were going to bed by around 7:30 to 8:30 in the evening.

Problems with having a regular bedtime were most common among minority families, the study authors said.

The good new for parents, however, is that behavior problems associated with poor sleep have a simple fix:  setting a regular bedtime for your child and sticking with it.  They found that when this step was taken by parents, there were immediate results, with obvious improvements in children’s behavior.

Experts say the first step in getting your child to bed on time is knowing what range of sleep hours is best for your child’s age.  The following ranges are suggested:

  • Ages 1 to 3:  12 to 14 hours
  • Ages 3 to 6:  10 to 12 hours
  • Ages 7 to 12:  10 to 11 hours
  • Ages 12 to 18:  8 to 9 hours

Once you know how many hours of sleep your child should be getting, set a bedtime which allows him to sleep this many hours before the activities of the day, such as breakfast and getting ready for school begin.  Then, stick with this bedtime.

One important step which parents can follow to help children with their sleep is to restrict their caffeine intake, especially in the afternoon.  The stimulant affect of caffeine can last for hours, making it difficult for little bodies to relax and sleep.

It is also very important for parents to create a relaxing bedtime routine for their children.  For example, each day as bedtime nears, you might want to give your child a bath, turn the lights low and switch to quiet activities such as reading a bedtime story.  By doing this at a regular time each day, it will help reset his circadian rhythm and signal to his body that it’s time to slow down and sleep.

Written by:  Nancy Schimelpfening

Sources:

Changes in Bedtime Schedules and Behavioral Difficulties in 7 Year Old Children

Tips to Beat Insomnia and Get a Restful Night of Sleep

How Much Sleep Do Children Need?

2 Responses to "Behavior Problems? A Simple Fix That Gives Immediate Results"

  1. parent   October 14, 2013 at 1:37 pm

    Kids need sleep, they also need parents to set limits, set boundaries and to teach them right from wrong. They expect parents to be the authority in things. In a structure, a schedule the child can blossom and concentrate on growing because they don t need to spend time figuring out how they want to be raised. Parents who dont’ give their kids guidelines and structure are not doing right by their children. They are taking away “childhood” from their children by making them parent themselves.

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