Selena Gomez Claims Back Her Virginity

Selena Gomez

Selena Gomez has claimed back her life and her virginity since splitting up from Justin Bieber last month. The 21-year-old star turned to religion after finding out about her on-again-off-again boyfriend’s betrayal with her supposed new BFF, but has gotten a little obsessed with it. She has decided that she will no longer have sex until she is married.

She wants to be a born-again virgin, and her new Christian friends have said that it is okay to choose this path. In fact, they believe that it is healthier for the star.

It certainly seems to have helped her in the last month or so. After Coachella weekend, she has focused on bible study and hanging out with like-minded people. There have been questionable decisions, like firing her parents as her managers, but she has also avoided the partying and mostly stayed out of the news for negative reasons. It certainly seems like she is getting her life back on track.

Her friends are supporting her, but they are rightfully concerned about the new switch. While religion is positive and can help when dealing with difficult and heart-breaking situations, it is easy to get sucked into the idea of it. It is important to find supportive groups, as there are many horror stories of religious cults.

Friends also worry that the Come and Get It singer has just switched obsessions from Bieber to religion. Finding religion and Gomez wanting to claim back her virginity is nothing negative, but she needs to follow the religion healthily. It is possible to get too deep into it that she does not see anything other than religion. Her friends worry that she will miss opportunities, or that it could just be a phase that she is going through.

Right now, Gomez needs support. It was difficult to hear that her boyfriend was doing the dirty on her, even if she knew that it was a probability. She had cut off a number of close people in her life because of him, and now she has to get her life back on track. Luckily, her true friends are not holding a grudge. Taylor Swift, one friend who was ousted after expressing a concern about Bieber, has openly stated that she is waiting and ready for her 21-year-old friend to talk.

There is hope that turning to religion is going to help. The former Disney star was in Nepal, where she hoped to find some “mental peace.” There is also the possibility that she just wanted to get away from all things Bieber and the media in the States as a whole.

Turning to religion to find that mental peace is natural. Many others have done it in the past and been successful with it. Hopefully, the same will happen for the Wizards of Waverly Place star. Her friends are rightfully worried, but need to be there to support her, just in case it is just a phase. Right now, it seems to be doing her some good. She is taking back control of her life, and claiming her virginity back.

Opinion by Alexandria Ingham

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2 Responses to "Selena Gomez Claims Back Her Virginity"

  1. Marked Twaine   October 2, 2014 at 3:29 pm

    You can’t claim your virginity back, because you can only lose it once, just like you have your first time only once. It is a shame she didn’t wait till she was married and allow her husband to open her up to womanhood, but she choose to throw it away on some ‘crush’ because until you are mature enough to take a vow of marriage, I firmly believe you are not mature enough yet to spread your legs and have sex. The fact that this girl not only had sex before marriage, but has regrets now and wrongly is trying to do another wrong to make a right by telling other girls her age and younger that if you have sex it is okay, just take your virginity back later and be born again just shows still how very immature and naïve this girl really and truly is. That’s the Bottom Line. End of Story. Move on now and get a life.

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  2. Elouisa R   June 12, 2014 at 8:56 am

    My thoughts? Well… You can’t claim back something that 1) doesn’t scientifically exist, and 2) according to most people (those who do subscribe to the idea of this word) can only happen once. My thoughts are that she would have set a stronger and more positive example if she had just announced she was going celibate; that way she would not be implying regret in her sexual actions, and thereby setting an example of taking responsibility for one’s own actions, not going back on them and pretending they didn’t occur. I guess I just really wish she hadn’t strengthened this whole “virginity” thing, which really rubs me the wrong way.
    Realistically, she probably didn’t think that far into it, and it probably doesn’t mean as much as it does to me; that’s just what would have gone through my head. All in all, I’m sure she’s happier now, and that’s great for her. I hope she does find peace and the strength to move on from a bad relationship.

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