Is Justin Bieber proving to the world that he has not changed, as much as girlfriend Selena Gomez wants to believe? The Canadian pop star was spotted with ex-fling Chantelle Jeffries not once, but twice. This was after Gomez made it very clear that she was not happy about him being out with her. It seems the second outing was more of a way to annoy the Come and Get It singer than anything else.
The two have been back together for around a month now, after being spotted together at Bieber’s father’s birthday party. Gomez’s friends and family members are not happy, but she believes that the 20-year-old is a changed man. He has been spotted attending bible study with his girlfriend, and even prays with her.
To come across as ready to settle down, the Canadian has even been looking for a vacation house for the two of them together. However, this is something he has done in the past, and it always leads to the same ending: the two break up or at least put their lives together on hold.
It seems the relationship is going the same way it always has, and it is the Boyfriend singer’s doing yet again. The couple has been arguing for a few days now, and the 20-year-old decided to blow off steam by hanging out with some friends. One of those was Jeffries, and a source close to Gomez says that she was hysterical over the meeting. To prove that he has not changed at all, Bieber met up with her the next night and Instagram photos were shared.
He seems to want to get back at Gomez for the arguing, but fails to realize that he is part of the problem. It is time for him to grow up and deal with problems in a relationship like an adult. Gomez should not have to deal with someone purposely hurting her. While asking him to never see Jeffries again is going to be tough and somewhat unfair, there is no need to rub the fact that Bieber is with her a night after the hysterics. That is just asking for more trouble.
According to those close to the Canadian pop star, Jeffries is still a friend and he has a soft spot for her. She never shared intimate information about him, even though she had plenty of opportunities to. That has led to an appreciation and respect. It also helps that she is “hot.” There is a sense that he has “unfinished business” with the model, and just enjoys hanging out with her.
If he wants to stay in Gomez’s good books, and wants to be someone her family accepts, it is time for him to change his ways. He needs to think about how his actions hurt the 21-year-old, and the things he can do to improve the relationship. One thing he forgets is that it is a two-way street, and it is not just up to her to keep the peace. Once again, Bieber is proving that he has not changed his ways and possibly never will.
Opinion by Alexandria Ingham