Selena Gomez has said goodbye to Justin Bieber and Demi Lovato this weekend. The Come and Get It star has had enough of her Canadian boyfriend’s ways yet again, while Lovato has just had enough with the overall drama. Many people will not be surprised, and will have expected it to happen, especially the Bieber drama.
Shortly before the weekend, there were rumors that Gomez and Bieber were engaged. The 20-year-old had reportedly bought a ring and got down on one knee. Of course, the former Disney star said yes. However, sources close to Bieber explained that the Canadian was just doing something that his girlfriend wanted to. He has no plans on getting married any time soon, unless there is a pregnancy.
The future did not look so promising just days after the alleged engagement. The Wizards of Waverly Place actress was horrified about Bieber spending time with his ex-girlfriend Chantelle Jeffries. When she made it clear that she was annoyed, the pop star went out with Jeffries again, making it clear that he is not bothered about how Gomez feels. He tried to make it up to her over the holiday weekend, but it was too little too late.
At the same time, it was clear that Lovato was just getting fed up of the whole drama. She ended up unfollowing her former BFF on Instagram, apparently leaving the message “Bye, b***h!” Saying goodbye to Bieber was not soon enough for Gomez to keep her Disney friend, Lovato.
It is becoming apparent that the 21-year-old is out of control. She needs help to break away from her toxic boyfriend. The problem is that constantly getting back with him is leading to friends leaving her because they just cannot stand it anymore. Lovato is not the first to end a friendship with the former Disney star over the Canadian singer. Last month, Taylor Swift reportedly decided she had had enough of the drama, too. She was not going to be a shoulder to cry on anymore.
Gomez needs to realize that she is losing the good people in her life. While some will claim that they must not be real friends, there is only so much her friends can take. The 21-year-old is refusing to accept that she is struggling to deal with everything around her, and Bieber is just making it worse. There is hope that if she gets the help she needs, her friends will be there afterwards. However, a condition may be that she no longer lets Bieber back into her life. It would be very similar if she was an addict, with a condition of not letting the substances back into her life.
There are now calls from her remaining friends and her family members to get back into rehab. She needs time to recover from the heartache and stress that the Canadian singer has caused. However, it is very unlikely she will unless forced to. Saying goodbye to Bieber and Lovato seems to have already been difficult enough for Gomez.
Opinion by Alexandria Ingham