Improve your sex life, man shouldn’t take charge

Sticking to traditional gender roles could make you less comfortable and less safe in the bedroom. According to a new studies man shouldn’t take charge. Researches form Yale University found that for young adults, sticking to traditional gender roles make them less comfortable and therefore less safe in the bedroom.

Researchers recruited 357 women and 126 men ages 18 to 29, all heterosexual and sexually active.

Study head Lisa Rosenthal and her team had subjects respond to survey questions on their sexual confidence and sexual assertiveness in a private cubicle, where there was a bowl of female condoms with a sign that read: “Protect yourself and your partner. Please take some! Free Female Condoms.”

“If men believe that men should dominate sexually, this may prevent them from feeling open or comfortable discussing sexual behavior and protection with their partners or asking questions about things they may not know,” which could dampen sexual confidence, wrote the researchers.

Female subjects in general were less likely than the men to believe that men should be more dominate in sexual situations.

A good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It won’t always be easy — our busy lives are taxing and often leave us tired and devoid of the imagination and motivation required to keep up the pace. Women are cyclic creatures, and her sex drive will vary depending on her hormones and what’s going on in her life. Sometimes it takes a bit longer to get her hot and the same-old song and dance may not be enough. This applies to you too.

Here are some tips to improve your sex life.

1. Blindfold
Increases her sensory awareness. She doesn’t know where you are or what you are going to do next. This creates anticipation for better sex — the tease.

2. Massage
This hinders our energy flow — including sexual energy flow. Imagine a car that has a clogged fuel filter: the fuel (our energy) can’t get to where it needs to go quickly and smoothly, and the car performs inefficiently and ineffectively.

3. Roll play
playing the role of someone else during sexual play is a very enjoyable way to give your partner some different sensations, and try things that you haven’t done before.

4. New Positions

There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex, so you can use your imagination and come up with as many weird and wonderful inventions as you desire.

5. Use of Sex Toys
Cock rings ensure that you can maintain the pace without faltering for better sex. This is very pleasing to your lady friend.

What will you be trying in the bedroom tonight?

2 Responses to "Improve your sex life, man shouldn’t take charge"

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  2. Jacqueline T. Women to Women Contributor   October 9, 2012 at 1:28 pm

    This notion that men feel like they must dominate in the bedroom may be why couples experience frustration when women are going through menopause. What really matters to so many women as they get older is that they feel in control and can feel confident that their changing needs will be met. Check out the article in the my signature link for ways older women can boost libido.


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