Advice for Selena Gomez

Selena GomezA hot career, new single and three movies in post-production would give most people a lot of self-confidence. But, that is not how it works in Hollywood and the digital age. In today’s social media Instagram and Insta-reaction society, Selena Gomez has been highly critical in social media about the “lies” printed about her and gossip about her personal life, so here is some advice for her.

Gomez recently griped on Instagram that she is frustrated with what is said about her and is ready to show everyone who she really is. Such pointed out that items on the Internet, including articles like this, are meant to keep readers updated but many either rehash old quotes that are not relevant now. Unfortunately, the fact they live forever is the positive and the negative about YouTube, social media, online publications are more. Realistically, Gomez, who will be 23 next month, has been in the public eye since she was cast as a moppet on Barney & Friends in 2001.

So, the first advice for her is stop looking yourself up on Google or on social media sites. The odds are that someone in the spotlight for so long may have had bad days, yo-yoing weight, pimples or said something that seems juvenile now. Avoiding checking on oneself ensures that a negative photo, snarky comment or gossip on whom Selena may or may not be dating, whether current or very outdated, cannot get to her.

The second piece is that people are known by the company they keep. Just ask Taylor Swift, who surrounds herself with other successful females, including Gomez. Friends who are positive influences and role models will be there long after the spotlight is off and the paparazzi have packed up their equipment.

A third piece of advice for Gomez is that time puts distances between old news and new. It may bother her now that a certain ex-boyfriend or two keep getting named in pieces about her, but that will fade and become ancient history. Do articles about Britney Spears still mention Justin Timberlake, or vice versa?

Fourth, these are Gomez’ “college” years. The years from 18 to about 22 is when most young adults spread their wings, experiment (with good and bad things), date around and try to figure out who they are. She has acknowledged that she has struggled with her identify and been trying to figure out where she is going. Selena, that is normal.

In her posting last week, she said, “I am beyond excited to show you the next chapter, the TRUTH.” Gomez added, tempting fans, “I’ve been keeping so many secrets… I’m reborn in every moment so who knows what I’ll become.” Gomez needs to cut herself some slack and realize she is a normal 22-year-old, albeit a rich one.

Lastly, the best way Gomez can rise about the negative nags who knock people down is to continue delivering good music and movies. The singer’s next single, Good for You, and the accompanying video will be released on the have a video and everything. Whether a song about a relationship is about an ex-boyfriend or a fictional one, keep it universal and keep them guessing. That way other people can relate to them and empathize based on their experiences.

The best advice for Selena Gomez is her own. As she said in Seventeen last year (yes, a one year old quote), “You can’t be afraid of what people are going to say, because you’re never going to make everyone happy.”

By Dyanne Weiss

Sources:
Entertainment Weekly: Selena Gomez teases new single with Instagram photos
Washington Post: Selena Gomez’s frustration
The Mirror: Selena Gomez declares she wants to ”claim her own name” in emotional Instagram post
Seventeen: Selena Gomez Slams Internet Rumors: “I Get Frustrated When I Hear Lies About Who I Am”
Fox News: Selena Gomez: ‘I’ve been keeping so many secrets’

4 Responses to "Advice for Selena Gomez"

  1. Emmanuel Love   March 13, 2019 at 11:27 pm

    Hey, how’s it going?

    Did you hear that the powers that run this world want to put a RFID microchip in our body? It will contain not only our bank accounts but our personal information, making us total slaves to the elite. This will cause us to lose even more of our privacy.

    Did you know that this RFID microchip matches perfectly with the Mark of the Beast in the Bible, more specifically Revelation 13:16-18?

    “He causes all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and slave, to receive a mark on their right hand or on their foreheads, and that no one may buy or sell except one who has the mark or the name of the beast, or the number of his name…”

    Referring to the last days, this could only be speaking of a cashless society, which we have yet to see, but are heading towards. Otherwise, we could still buy or sell without the mark amongst others if physical money was still currency. It’s amazing that the Bible foretold a cashless society!

    Did you also hear that the Jewish people are in the process of bringing about the Third Temple prophesied in the Bible by the prophet Daniel, Jesus, and Apostle Paul? They deny Jesus as their Messiah and say their Messiah will be revealed to rule the whole world under a one world religion. They are not even hiding this information, but are actually promoting it. You can view videos about this on YouTube.

    When Donald Trump made Jerusalem captial of Israel in late December 2017, the Jewish people said this was a big step for them to build this Third Temple. They even printed a Temple coin with president Trump’s face on the front with king Cyrus'(the man who built the Second Temple in the Bible) face behind him. On the back of the coin is an image of the Third Temple. They are selling these coins to raise money to build the Temple.

    People have been saying for many years that the end is near, but we needed not only the Third Temple, but also the technology for there to be a cashless society for the Mark of the Beast to be a reality.

    There is much more to know, please visit http://WWW.BIBLEFREEDOM.COM to see all the proof!

    GOD BLESS, JESUS LOVES YOU!

    Reply
  2. Emmanuel Love   March 12, 2019 at 3:06 pm

    Hey, how’s it going?

    Did you hear that the powers that run this world want to put a RFID microchip in our body? It will contain not only our bank accounts but our personal information, making us total slaves to the elite. This will cause us to lose even more of our privacy.

    Did you know that this RFID microchip matches perfectly with the Mark of the Beast in the Bible, more specifically Revelation 13:16-18?

    “He causes all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and slave, to receive a mark on their right hand or on their foreheads, and that no one may buy or sell except one who has the mark or the name of the beast, or the number of his name…”

    Referring to the last days, this could only be speaking of a cashless society, which we have yet to see, but are heading towards. Otherwise, we could still buy or sell without the mark amongst others if physical money was still currency. It’s amazing that the Bible foretold a cashless society!

    Did you also hear that the Jewish people are in the process of bringing about the Third Temple prophesied in the Bible by the prophet Daniel, Jesus, and Apostle Paul? They deny Jesus as their Messiah and say their Messiah will be revealed to rule the whole world under a one world religion. They are not even hiding this information, but are actually promoting it. You can view videos about this on YouTube.

    When Donald Trump made Jerusalem captial of Israel in late December 2017, the Jewish people said this was a big step for them to build this Third Temple. They even printed a Temple coin with president Trump’s face on the front with king Cyrus'(the man who built the Second Temple in the Bible) face behind him. On the back of the coin is an image of the Third Temple. They are selling these coins to raise money to build the Temple.

    People have been saying for many years that the end is near, but we needed not only the Third Temple, but also the technology for there to be a cashless society for the Mark of the Beast to be a reality.

    There is much more to know, please visit http://WWW.BIBLEFREEDOM.COM to see all the proof!

    GOD BLESS, JESUS LOVES YOU!

    Reply
  3. Emmanuel Love   March 10, 2019 at 5:37 am

    Hey, how’s it going?

    Did you hear that the powers that run this world want to put a RFID microchip in our body? It will contain not only our bank accounts but our personal information, making us total slaves to the elite. This will cause us to lose even more of our privacy.

    Did you know that this RFID microchip matches perfectly with the Mark of the Beast in the Bible, more specifically Revelation 13:16-18?

    “He causes all, both small and great, rich and poor, free and slave, to receive a mark on their right hand or on their foreheads, and that no one may buy or sell except one who has the mark or the name of the beast, or the number of his name…”

    Referring to the last days, this could only be speaking of a cashless society, which we have yet to see, but are heading towards. Otherwise, we could still buy or sell without the mark amongst others if physical money was still currency. It’s amazing that the Bible foretold a cashless society!

    Did you also hear that the Jewish people are in the process of bringing about the Third Temple prophesied in the Bible by the prophet Daniel, Jesus, and Apostle Paul? They deny Jesus as their Messiah and say their Messiah will be revealed to rule the whole world under a one world religion. They are not even hiding this information, but are actually promoting it. You can view videos about this on YouTube.

    When Donald Trump made Jerusalem captial of Israel in late December 2017, the Jewish people said this was a big step for them to build this Third Temple. They even printed a Temple coin with president Trump’s face on the front with king Cyrus'(the man who built the Second Temple in the Bible) face behind him. On the back of the coin is an image of the Third Temple. They are selling these coins to raise money to build the Temple.

    People have been saying for many years that the end is near, but we needed not only the Third Temple, but also the technology for there to be a cashless society for the Mark of the Beast to be a reality.

    There is much more to know, please visit http://WWW.BIBLEFREEDOM.COM to see all the proof!

    GOD BLESS, JESUS LOVES YOU!

    Reply
  4. frank   June 14, 2015 at 2:03 pm

    About Selena shes growing up,! Value that she wants truth in her life,because not to many want this and live up to it in real life.awsome is just a word but reality is more like gold in the hands of a king ,the truth,support her.Stop casting her down with lies,lov u Selena ,

    Reply

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