Same Sex Marriage Will Not Solve Anything

Same Sex Marriage

The fight for marriage equality is an extremely hot topic lately, as the federal courts in the United States topple anti-gay laws and denounce proposed anti-LGBT bills as unconstitutional. Entire countries around the world are rewriting their laws to allow same-sex couples to get married. However, same-sex marriage becoming legalized around the world will not solve anything. Marriage equality is just the tip of the iceberg, and it is not even the most important thing to focus on in the fight for the rights of LGBT people. American media has tricked its audience into thinking that it is the final frontier of the fight for equal rights.

Earlier today, the news broke of a mob in Nigeria’s capital that pulled 14 men who were suspected to be gay from their homes and beat them using iron bars and wooden clubs. Four of the men that the mob targeted were reportedly attacked by police officers. This is the news that inspired this piece.

When the United States reaches the point when the entirety of the union has recognized same-sex marriages as equal in the eyes of the law, there will still be gay people being brutally attacked without provocation. There will still be transgender women being murdered for “tricking” men into being attracted to them. There will still be young people cast out of their homes and into the streets with nowhere to go. There will still be people dragged from their homes in the early hours of the morning and beaten on only a suspicion of homosexuality.

The only thing same-sex marriage provides is a pretty, profitable veil for most high-profile LGBT organizations to hide behind without having to address the dark, ugly truths that face gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people around the world.

There will always be the fear of being attacked for simply existing; the fear that someone will take it upon themselves to serve the justice they believe the government did not. However, these vigilantes are not be taking care of a problem that has been overlooked by the judicial system, they are murdering innocent people for no reason other than their own prejudices.

Same-sex marriage becoming legal will not solve anything beyond the problem that same-sex couples in most of the world aren’t recognized by the governments of their countries or states. It will not address the problem that many same-sex couples must exist in secret out of fear for their very survival.

While 18 countries and 17 American states have legalized same-sex marriage, 33 American states have actively instated laws and altered their constitutions in order to ban it. More shocking, however, is that there are 68 countries that consider simply existing as an openly gay human being to be a crime. Furthermore, there are five countries whose governments will put gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people to death just for being who they are.

It is important to note that the issue of the criminalization of homosexuality around the world is, in fact, being addressed. Two examples of this are the recent Twitter campaigns started through the┬áNo More Triangle Nations project, one┬ácalling for Pope Francis’s denunciation of the countries that have laws that put homosexual people to death, and the other pressuring President Museveni of Uganda to veto a very drastic, harmful anti-homosexuality bill.

However, rather than placing the spotlight on efforts to save the lives of LGBT people around the world like those put forth by the New Ways Ministry and the Fellowship of Affirming Ministries in their No More Triangle Nations project, the news is filled with marriage equality. And, yes, while it is important, same-sex marriage does not and will not solve anything more than integrating same-sex couples into a broken system that rewards people for conformity to the status quo. People around the world will still be imprisoned because of their sexuality. People around the world will still be murdered because of their sexuality. But at least all American couples will be allowed to file jointly on their tax returns.

Opinion By Robin Syrenne


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4 Responses to "Same Sex Marriage Will Not Solve Anything"

  1. lerizzle   February 17, 2014 at 4:21 pm

    Tell that to MLK. People are still racist but we must move forward and not throw these types poison arrows at the energy field.

  2. Jeff A   February 17, 2014 at 10:10 am

    1) the statement is patently false, because same-sexy marriage will solve the problem of marriage inequality (duh); and 2) it’s a straw man argument. No one is claiming that same-sex marriage will make everything rosy for LGBT people worldwide, but just because you can’t do absolutely everything doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do something.

  3. Keith Pullman   February 17, 2014 at 9:29 am

    Same-gender marriage honors loving relationships. It does solve some problems, not all. There is no good reason to deny that we must keep evolving until an adult, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, monogamy or polyamory, race, or religion is free to marry any and all consenting adults. The limited same-gender freedom to marry is a great and historic step, but is NOT full marriage equality, because equality “just for some” is not equality. Let’s stand up for EVERY ADULT’S right to marry the person(s) they love. Get on the right side of history!

  4. Meri Equality Justus   February 17, 2014 at 7:18 am

    This is SAD, and a fight that will continue long after everyone in America is able to get married, and even here in the states it will be a struggle, because once Equality has been reached in all states there will be groups of people filled with hate who will take things into their own hands, out of Hate. we all need to stand up and have our voices heard, and for the ones in countries where death, or jail, or being beaten are the norm, We need to speak up for them to, ALL LGBT in countries who are not under laws like theirs. This is gong to be a long road still. so stand up and let your voices be heard, and speak for those who can not, and keep going until EVERY LGBT person in the world is FREE from the HATE!!!!


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